The article “The Sunny Side of Smut” is written to
expose about the different view towards pornography where it can be seen as a
positive side. The excerpt by Melinda Wenner Moyer suggested that it is not
immoral act to watch pornography as it is able to prevent many serious sex
cases like rape and sexism. As we know, pornography has been labelled as an
immoral action to be done but this article inversely comes up with the ideas of
seeing pornography in positive view. In fact, despite of others example the writer
came up, we could barely think critically that pornography is a bad idea to
educate people.
Porn along with controlled
masturbation improves performance. Sex therapists
often recommend using masturbation as practise for sex. Adding porn into the
mix can help make it more realistic, improving the ability of man or women to respond
and perform during the real thing. However, Porn makes women
seem less attractive to men, Naomi Wolf. "The Porn Myth." The Atlantic. 2010: "The onslaught
of porn is responsible for deadening male libido in relation to real women, and
leading men to see fewer and fewer women as “porn-worthy.” Far from having to
fend off porn-crazed young men, young women are worrying that as mere flesh and
blood, they can scarcely get, let alone hold, their attention”. Porn can serve as a (partial) substitute for
sex life. For people that (for various reasons) don’t have a sexual
life, pornography can (partially) serve as its substitute. This holds
especially well for men, who are much more visually oriented (with regard to
sex) than women are, as can be seen from the fact that the clear majority of
pornographic material focuses on the female form. Nevertheless, Porn leaves men feeling empty and upset with
themselves. David McLeod, a marketing executive, said to the
Guardian in a 2003: "You can easily get too much of it. It's deadening,
nullifying, gratuitous, unsatisfying. At one point I was single for three years
and I used a lot of porn then. After a while, it made me feel worse. I'd feel
disgusted with myself and have a huge purge”
Porn degrades human romance to
mere sex. It debases human interactions by
eliminating love, laughter and all other emotions, and reducing them to the
crudely sexual. While this is not always the case with porn, it is generally
true, thus sending the wrong message to men and women about how they should
prioritize sex in their lives.
Pornography encourages
promiscuity and shallow relationships. Ray Wyre, a
specialist in sexual crime, said to the Guardian in 2003 that pornography
"encourages transience, experimentation and moving between partners.
Pornography does damage because it encourages people to make their home in
shallow relationships”.
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